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📍PHL | NYC 𝐁𝐥𝐨𝐠𝐠𝐞𝐫/𝐬𝐩𝐞𝐚𝐤𝐞𝐫𝐆𝐫𝐚𝐝 𝐒𝐭𝐮𝐝𝐞𝐧𝐭 @widenerchss 📝As seen in: @forbes @cosmopolitan @bustle @vice @washingtonpost @buzzfeed @huffpost

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I’m always on the move to attend conferences but it suddenly dawned on me that I don’t post enough reviews of these events for people who are curious about going ⁣⁣So here’s my review of my recent experience👇🏾⁣⁣For starters this was my first year attending SDS and it already secured its spot in my top 3 favorite conferences (along with Kinky Kollege and Exxxotica in no particular order) ⁣⁣There’s a little bit of everything from clothing-optional couples yoga and tech brands exhibiting their high quality toys to aphrodisiac-themed parties and interactive BDSM lessons ⁣⁣I’ve been to many conferences so it’s not everyday that I get to try or see something new but I had the pleasure of going to an erotic hypnosis class and I must say that was an entirely new level of subspace I’ve ever experienced 😁✨⁣⁣There were A LOT of entertaining workshops to pick from so I couldn’t go to all of them but here are some that I hope I can check out next time:⁣- Face f*cking class with live demo⁣- Fisting class with live demo⁣- Dynamic Rope Play class⁣- Kinky Spa session ⁣⁣Needless to say I’ll definitely go back again next year!! Btw I plan my travels early so if any ATL buddies wanna join me in September 2023 then let me know😝 @sdscon
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What are the top 10 kinkiest cities in the world? According to a study by the results are:⁣⁣🇬🇧London⁣🇺🇸Las Vegas⁣🇩🇪Berlin⁣🇺🇸New York⁣🇪🇸Madrid⁣🇦🇹Vienna⁣🇨🇦Toronto⁣🇪🇸Barcelona⁣🇫🇷Paris⁣🇦🇺Sydney⁣🇺🇸Los Angeles⁣Now the question remains how do you find your local kink community? Well I explained in a recent article for Click the 🔗 in my bio to read more!⁣___________⁣⁣¿Cuáles son las 10 ciudades más kinky del mundo? Segun un estudio de investigación de los resultados son:⁣⁣🇬🇧Londres ⁣🇺🇸Las Vegas⁣🇩🇪Berlín⁣🇺🇸Nueva York⁣🇪🇸Madrid⁣🇦🇹Viena⁣🇨🇦Toronto⁣🇫🇷París⁣🇦🇺Sídney⁣🇺🇸Los Ángeles⁣Ahora la pregunta permanece: ¿Cómo encuentras la comunidad kinky en tu ciudad? Pues expliqué en un artículo para Haz click el 🔗 en bio para leer más! ⁣
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When I first started traveling I used to stress about the typical stuff like how to fit everything in my carry on without exceeding the weight limit and how to alleviate jet lag ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣Now that I’m an experienced traveler I’ve discovered other things that I never thought would impact my travels For example birth control You’d think it’s as easy as taking your pill daily as usual and nothing changes right? 𝗪𝐑𝐎𝐍𝐆 ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣For Buzzfeed I wrote about things to consider about birth control while traveling Here are 2:⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣1️⃣ Continue taking your pills at your usual time/your original time zone For example if you live in Philly and you travel to Spain (which is 6 hours ahead of eastern time) you need to take your pill 6 hours later So if you take it at 9 AM in Phily you will have to take it at 3 PM in Spain ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣2️⃣ If you travel by plane keep your contraceptive method in your carry-on instead of your checked luggage to avoid problems (lost luggage and heat damage)⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣Click the 🔗 in my bio for more! ⁣⁣⁣_________________⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣Cuando comencé a viajar lo único que me preocupaba era cómo acomodar todo en mi equipaje de mano sin exceder el límite de peso además de sortear el temido jetlag ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣Ahora que me considero una viajera experimentada descubrí otras cosas que nunca pensé que afectarían los movimientos de mis viajes Por ejemplo las píldoras anticonceptivas Seguramente considerarían que todo es muy fácil que solo se trata de tomar tu píldora diariamente y ya pero 𝐍𝐎!⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣Para Buzzfeed escribí cosas a considerar sobre las píldoras anticonceptivas mientras viajas Aquí hay dos:⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣1️⃣ Tendrás que calcular la hora en tu lugar de residencia y tomarla en ese horario Por ejemplo si vives en Philly y viajas a España (que está seis horas adelante) tendrás que tomar la píldora seis horas después Así que si la tomas a las 09:00 AM en Philly tendrás que tomarla a las 03:00 PM en España ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣2️⃣ Si viajas en avión mantén tu método anticonceptivo en tu equipaje de mano en lugar de tu equipaje despachado para así evitar problemas (equipaje perdido y sobrecalentamiento) ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣¡haz clic en 🔗 en mi bio para más!⁣⁣⁣
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3 things I learned about myself during the German Fetish Ball l attended last weekend:⁣⁣- I identified as a submissive but I realized that I’m way more of a switch than I thought (still bratty sub leaning though😝)⁣⁣- The KitKat Club is officially my favorite club Kapital in Madrid was my favorite but it’s been demoted to my second favorite (even though I technically can’t compare the two since they’re so different) ⁣⁣- Latex is my newest fashion obsession 😉⁣⁣ ⁣_________________⁣⁣Tres cosas que aprendí sobre mí durante el "German Fetish Ball" al que asistí el pasado fin de semana: ⁣⁣- Me identifiqué como sumisa pero me di cuenta de que soy mucho más una switch de lo que creía (aunque todavía me inclino por bratty sub 😝)⁣⁣- El Club "KitKat" es oficialmente mi club favorito "Kapital" en Madrid lo fue anteriormente pero pasó a segundo lugar (aunque técnicamente no debería comparar los dos porque son muy diferentes entre sí)⁣⁣- El látex es mi nueva obsesión para aplicar a mi moda personal 😉⁣⁣ #GermanFetishBall #GFB #GFB2022 #LatexFashion #BerlinTravel #Alemania #ViajesPorElMundo
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One of the best parts about traveling is when I discover how romance and culture intersect ⁣⁣In America public display of affection is common but it’s mostly tame… aside from couples in high school who were always kissing in the middle of the hallway (no judgment though We’ve all had our cringey moments when we were 16😅🥴)⁣⁣From what I’ve noticed in Spain PDA (no matter what age and no matter how tame or steamy) is more accepted regardless of the context PDA is everywhere: the metro the parks and even on planes It’s so normal that other people in public barely give it a second glance ⁣⁣I personally admire the way certain cultures in Europe are more romantically expressive in ways that American culture isn’t ⁣⁣After all couples who use their words and actions to express that they want each other tend to be happier in their relationship ⁣⁣__________⁣⁣Una de las experiencias más ricas al viajar es descubrir cómo se entrecruzan el romance y la cultura⁣⁣En EEUU la demostración pública de afecto es común pero no a niveles de ser considerada una experiencia erótica salvo en el caso de las parejas en la escuela secundaria que siempre se besarán en el instituto (No juzguéis Todos hemos tenido nuestros momentos cringe cuando teníamos 16 años😅) ⁣⁣En España el PDA (sin importar la edad y sin importar si es inocente o apasionado) es más aceptado PDA está en todas partes: el metro los parques e incluso en los aviones Es tan normal que otras personas en público apenas reparan en prestar atención ⁣⁣Sin embargo admiro la manera en la que algunas culturas en Europa expresan mucho más el romanticismo ⁣⁣Al fin y al cabo las parejas que expresan el amor en todas sus formas son mucho más felices!
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Is this my digital cover girl moment?😱🤯 Last month I wrote a piece for and shared my personal journey of embracing my natural hair ⁣⁣Sometimes it feels silly to admit but as a Black woman I plan everything around my hair If I have a vacation to the beach coming up I wear crochet braids If I’m going to a concert I put on my lace front wig If I’m getting freaky deaky in between the sheets well it’s complicated🤔⁣⁣I’ve wondered “Should I put my hair in two long braids to keep it from getting matted? Should I style my Afro into twists? A tight bun? Or just put on my headscarf or bonnet and call it a night?” ⁣⁣But the truth is that for a long time my sense of what was “sexy” was based largely on what I saw in pop culture which was typically straight/fine-textured hair that could get flipped and pulled without any second thought (and let’s be real The kinks and coils of my natural fro have to be handled with a lot more care😅) ⁣⁣Luckily the more representation I saw of Black women embracing their natural hair in the bedroom on TV the more it gave me the confidence to do the same⁣⁣So if you wanna know more about my natural hair journey click the link in my bio to read my love letter to the TV scenes that helped me embrace my natural hair in the bedroom ⁣__________⁣⁣¿Este es mi momento "Cover Girl" digital? 😱 En Cosmo compartí mi camino personal para amar mi cabello natural ⁣⁣A veces parece tonto admitirlo pero como mujer morena planifico todo en torno a mi cabello Si tengo unas vacaciones en la playa me pongo braids Si voy a un concierto me pongo mi postizo de encaje frontal Si estoy en la cama bueno es complicado 🤔⁣⁣Me he preguntado “¿Debería ponerme el cabello en dos braids largas para evitar que se enrede? ¿Debo peinar mi afro en twists? ¿Un moño apretado? ¿O simplemente ponerme el pañuelo en la cabeza o el gorro y así dar por terminada la noche?”⁣⁣Pero la verdad es que durante mucho tiempo mi sentido de lo que era "sexy" se basó en lo que veía en la cultura pop (cabello lacio/de textura fina)⁣⁣Si quieres saber más sobre mi camino desandado con el cabello natural haz clic en el 🔗 de mi bio @cosmopolitan
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When your [redacted] turns into a waterfall after hearing your lover moan 🌊⁣⁣According to a study published in the 𝘑𝘰𝘶𝘳𝘯𝘢𝘭 𝘰𝘧 𝘚𝘰𝘤𝘪𝘢𝘭 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘗𝘦𝘳𝘴𝘰𝘯𝘢𝘭 𝘙𝘦𝘭𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴𝘩𝘪𝘱𝘴 in 2012 nonverbal communication in the bedroom is directly related to higher sexual self-esteem and satisfaction ⁣⁣I recently wrote for about how moaning gives us more sexual satisfaction so click on my bio to learn what moaning means in sexual situations and when the moaning is genuine vs only used for the purpose of making your lover climax faster😬⁣⁣____________⁣⁣Cuando tu [redactado] se pone tan mojada como una cascada después de escuchar gemir a tu amante 🌊⁣⁣Según un estudio publicado en la revista 𝘑𝘰𝘶𝘳𝘯𝘢𝘭 𝘰𝘧 𝘚𝘰𝘤𝘪𝘢𝘭 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘗𝘦𝘳𝘴𝘰𝘯𝘢𝘭 𝘙𝘦𝘭𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴𝘩𝘪𝘱𝘴 en 2012 la comunicación no verbal durante el sexo está relacionada directamente con tener más autoestima sexual y más satisfacción ⁣⁣Escribí para sobre cómo gemir nos proporciona mayor satisfacción sexual asi haz clic el enlace en mi bio para aprender qué significa gemir en situaciones sexuales y cuando el gemido es auténtico o sólo usado con el propósito de procurar que su amante llegue al clímax más rápido🤔⁣ @cosmopolitan @cosmopolitan
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It’s officially my first day of 19th grade (3rd year of grad school) at 💛💙 As I get closer to becoming a clinical sex therapist I reflect more about my “why?” ⁣⁣Truthfully I’m pursuing this field for reasons that are much bigger than myself ⁣⁣I’m doing this for every woman who needs communication tools to advocate for her pleasure because she was taught that sex is basically over once the man is finished ⁣⁣I’m doing this for every man who (even if his pride won’t let him admit it out of fear of looking less “macho”) wants to feel desired and emotionally connected too ⁣⁣I’m doing this for couples who are transitioning into parenthood and aren’t sure how to keep the intimacy alive after having a baby⁣⁣I’m doing this for people all over the world who don’t have access to this kind of information in their native language ⁣⁣I’m doing this for the generations to come because I want them to live in a world where certain policies aren’t a direct attack on their autonomy their sexual orientation or gender identity ⁣⁣My dad always told me that the most admirable thing a person can do is dedicate their life to a cause knowing that they may never see the result of their hard work come into fruition ⁣⁣Some things are progressing right before my eyes in real time and there are other things that I envision for the future that I might not live long enough to see but I’m at peace with that because this is my calling This is my purpose @wideneruniversity
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Last month one of my dreams came true I had the honor of presenting my seminar “Sex Writing 101: Tips to Becoming the Modern-Day Carrie Bradshaw ” at Exxxotica the largest adult event in 🇺🇸 dedicated to love & sex ⁣⁣⁣⁣Thank you very much to those who came and from the bottom of my heart thank you for inviting me to present and thank you for being the best event coordinator! ⁣⁣⁣⁣In case you missed my seminar in Miami go to the next event in Edison New Jersey (October 21-23)!✈️⁣⁣⁣⁣___________⁣⁣⁣⁣El mes pasado cumplí un sueño Tuve el honor de presentar mi seminario “Sex Writing 101: Tips to Becoming the Modern-Day Carrie Bradshaw ” a Exxxotica el evento para adultos más grande de 🇺🇸 dedicado al amor y el sexo⁣⁣⁣⁣Muchísimas gracias a los que vinieron y desde el fondo de mi corazón gracias a por invitarme a presentar y gracias por ser el mejor coordinadora del evento! ⁣⁣⁣⁣En caso de que te lo hayas perdido mi seminario en Miami ve al próximo evento en Edison Nueva Jersey (October 21-23)!✈️⁣⁣ @realglamazontyomi @realglamazontyomi
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My first German Fetish Ball was a success! Already accepting travel buddy applications for next year ✈️⁣___________⁣⁣Mi primer German Fetish Ball fue un éxito! Ya estoy aceptando solicitudes para un compañero de viaje para el próximo año ✈️
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And just like that I finished my 2nd year of grad school in the sex therapy master’s program at Widener💛💙 (Only one more year left! *screams profusely*) Now time to take some much needed rest this weekend and then I’m off to Spain next week to celebrate 🎉⁣⁣ ___________⁣⁣Oficialmente terminé el segundo año de la maestría en terapia sexual de la Universidad de Widener💛💙 (solo me falta un año más!😬*grita intensamente*) Es hora de descansar este finde y luego viajaré a España la próxima semana para celebrar 🎉
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Back from a two month hiatus from posting on my feed so here’s a mini rant about something I’ve been reflecting on lately…⁣⁣Admittedly last year my libido and personal connection to sex in general was at an all time low (which isn’t necessarily a bad thing objectively speaking but that’s not normal for me personally) But instead of actively working on it I shut down and got stuck in a rut ⁣⁣But recently I started journaling as a form of meditation and it’s helped me become more self-aware and cognizant of patterns to be mindful of when it comes to my libido It’s a powerful feeling to be able to observe and describe what’s happening inside your body/mind and use those observations as a tool to create fulfilling sexual experiences ⁣⁣So here are some questions I’ve asked myself to guide my mindfulness journey that might help you too!👇🏾 ⁣⁣𝘞𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘮𝘺 𝘢𝘳𝘰𝘶𝘴𝘢𝘭 𝘭𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘭𝘴 𝘥𝘶𝘳𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘥𝘪𝘧𝘧𝘦𝘳𝘦𝘯𝘵 𝘵𝘪𝘮𝘦𝘴 𝘰𝘧 𝘮𝘺 𝘮𝘦𝘯𝘴𝘵𝘳𝘶𝘢𝘭 𝘤𝘺𝘤𝘭𝘦?⁣⁣𝘞𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘮𝘺 𝘢𝘳𝘰𝘶𝘴𝘢𝘭 𝘭𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘭𝘴 𝘤𝘰𝘮𝘱𝘢𝘳𝘦𝘥 𝘵𝘰 𝘮𝘺 𝘴𝘵𝘳𝘦𝘴𝘴 𝘭𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘭𝘴 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘮𝘦𝘯𝘵𝘢𝘭 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘵𝘩?⁣⁣𝘏𝘰𝘸 𝘥𝘰 𝘴𝘱𝘦𝘤𝘪𝘧𝘪𝘤 𝘴𝘦𝘯𝘴𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 (𝘴𝘱𝘢𝘯𝘬𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘤𝘩𝘰𝘬𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘩𝘢𝘪𝘳 𝘱𝘶𝘭𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘤𝘢𝘳𝘦𝘴𝘴𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘦𝘵𝘤 ) 𝘮𝘢𝘬𝘦 𝘮𝘦 𝘧𝘦𝘦𝘭? ⁣⁣𝘏𝘰𝘸 𝘱𝘳𝘦𝘴𝘦𝘯𝘵 𝘥𝘰 𝘐 𝘧𝘦𝘦𝘭 𝘪𝘯 𝘮𝘺 𝘣𝘰𝘥𝘺?⁣⁣𝘞𝘦𝘳𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘳𝘦 𝘢𝘯𝘺 𝘦𝘮𝘰𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘢𝘭 𝘰𝘳 𝘱𝘩𝘺𝘴𝘪𝘤𝘢𝘭 𝘣𝘭𝘰𝘤𝘬𝘴 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘐 𝘯𝘰𝘵𝘪𝘤𝘦𝘥?⁣⁣𝘞𝘢𝘴 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘳𝘦 𝘢 𝘴𝘱𝘦𝘤𝘪𝘧𝘪𝘤 𝘮𝘰𝘮𝘦𝘯𝘵 𝘸𝘩𝘦𝘯 𝘮𝘺 𝘭𝘰𝘷𝘦𝘳 𝘴𝘢𝘪𝘥 𝘰𝘳 𝘥𝘪𝘥 𝘴𝘰𝘮𝘦𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘵𝘶𝘳𝘯𝘦𝘥 𝘮𝘦 𝘰𝘯 𝘰𝘳 𝘴𝘱𝘢𝘳𝘬𝘦𝘥 𝘢 𝘧𝘢𝘯𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘺? ⁣⁣𝘞𝘩𝘪𝘤𝘩 𝘰𝘧 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘧𝘪𝘷𝘦 𝘴𝘦𝘯𝘴𝘦𝘴 (𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘴𝘪𝘨𝘩𝘵 𝘴𝘮𝘦𝘭𝘭 𝘵𝘰𝘶𝘤𝘩 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘢𝘴𝘵𝘦) 𝘱𝘭𝘢𝘺 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘣𝘪𝘨𝘨𝘦𝘴𝘵 𝘳𝘰𝘭𝘦 𝘪𝘯 𝘩𝘦𝘪𝘨𝘩𝘵𝘦𝘯𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘮𝘺 𝘢𝘳𝘰𝘶𝘴𝘢𝘭?
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